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Simple Anger Management Exercises You Can Try

Simple Anger Management Exercises You Can Try
By Trevor Johnson

Flying off the handle is as traumatic for you as for the victim of your venom. Learning anger management exercises is not only good for you but for your entire family.

Pin the triggers: Is it dishonesty in people, insubordination, and certain kinds of behavior that make you angry? Once you have identified these triggers, analyze how many of these triggers can be controlled. If it is something your spouse is doing you can always discuss the problem with them and sort it out to prevent further outbreaks of anger. If these triggers are generated from a public life, you will only need to convince yourself that they are beyond your control. You will then need to tell yourself repeatedly that the anger is doing you more harm than to those people who are triggering it. You will see slow but sure changes in your anger control if you make it a daily exercise of identifying these triggers.

Breathing exercises: Visit a yoga studio or look up the internet for learning deep breathing. Whenever you feel anger welling up inside, begin these exercises. Deep breathing increases the flow of oxygen to your body, particularly your brain, clearing your mind, relaxing you and helping you control your emotions.

Fitness program: Incorporate an aerobics or dance session in your weekly schedule. This will boost your energy, help you release stress and remain overall in control of your mood. Anger will be slow to rise and easier to control if you work out on a regular basis.

Maintain a diary: Start maintaining a diary for emotional release. Do not suppress your emotions and feelings but don't vent them out negatively either. Over a period of time, this diary exercise will help you keep cool and see things in the right perspective every time you start to get angry. Most often, your pent up emotion will flow away in words and you won't need to physically get angry at all. Even otherwise, if you have a close friend, start releasing feelings about people and things that upset you with them as a joint exercise.

Make sure that you decide that toxic emotions will be flushed out during the 'anger-kicking session' between the two of you and then, not focused upon again. Learning to stay cool will soon become a habit.

Get more simple anger management exercises and learn how you can start to control your anger more often.

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